Tuesday, May 13, 2008

starving for love

I have seen with my own eyes wonderful beautiful smart women who had incredibly self-confidence and vibrant magnetic personalities that couldn’t find a good man if their life depended on it. Believing in love doesn’t mean that you’ll get love. Someone still has to show up and fall in love with you. Finding the right one is much harder then simply having a good attitude. Don’t let anyone tell you that because you haven’t found a quality match that it’s your fault because sometimes you lose hope. The fact is that if you are starving for love, then you are starving. Nobody can feel loved that isn’t. Yes, you can be grateful for the love of friends and family and thereby have the basic core human need met. But we all know there’s a big difference between living off of bread and water versus enjoying a bountiful harvest of delicious foods. It’s no different with love. You have a right to feel an ache in your heart - you are hungry.

1 comment:

Vishwanath Seshadri said...

The whole world - I mean it - the whole world including birds, animals, plants and other human beings - will love me if I reduce / control / eliminate my ego. We all love children, dont we ? That is because they have such little egos....

Be selfless and be loved....

cheers